Hello and it´s nearly the end of the first week teaching...I actually have 7 classes not 5 as I thought before. It´s fun taking the bus down there, they have mega sound systems and pump out quality tunes in the morning- Eternal Flame etc.. sounds even better on these buses. It is a bloody nightmare being a pedestrian here as cars rule and there´s so much belching smoke and not really much pavement going on by the road. It is pretty much chaos I think I can safely say no one knows what´s going on. I also can now say that teaching adults where they voluntarily come to study as I was doing in London before seems like a total luxury. I´ve been trying out different things and probably have had about one good class with each group. It´s been momentarily fun also knackering and bloody difficult. I salute anyone who teaches this age group, and the thought of doing this in England seems like it would be much much worse. They other teachers have been friendly but it feels like going on an orienteering run with heavy rain obscuring the way. It´s mega challenge trying to keep them all interested, not yelling at them (although one of my colleagues, a teacher from the US, who laughs heartily after all his comments advised me, "if in doubt, shout") also getting a sense of the right tasks for them, I really don´t think I am teenager EFL teacher material.
It turns out the purchase of sensible shoes mght have been a little premature as my last day with these groups is tomorrow. I was substituting while they found the next teacher, who has been found, a good thing for the students. I am going to see if there´s any work with the younger kids though next week. So this weeks been all teaching and the art workshops. Yesterday´s was great and I feel like I learn lots there through working with the kids and being with someone who knows what they are doing.
Things that I have seen that you wouldn´t see in England in the last week- a rubbish collector on back of full rubbish truck eating an orange with bare hands, a invitational poster up by a church to a sermon titled ´the causes of homosexuality´, man on old ladder in middle of road in rush hour traffic fixing wires, puppies packed in cages on the side of the road, live crabs and parrots on sticks for sale at the roundabout near me, the widest selection of stray dogs you´ve ever clapped eyes on...
So a short blog to offset the last one. Hasta la proxima xxx
Thursday, 26 March 2009
Monday, 23 March 2009
How not to teach and art fun
Hello from the cupboard where I am pumping quarters to keep the computer alive. Apologies for lack of blogs, part laziness, part occupation, part intolerance of being at the back of the video store, where my companions are normally hormonal boys downloading porn, eating gross food and so on whilst the propietor furiously sprays air freshner, which combined with cheese and hormones makes me feel a little queasy.
So an update on the last few weeks - 2nd March to now, wow it´s the 23rd. Goodness
Week of 2nd March- On Mon 2nd, After having visited a couple of schools to teach in, I went for my first week of ´training´at the Academia Europa, a chain of language schools over in CA. Our trainer was a woman caled Carla with a yellow tooth, "Ok c´mon guys, let´s go!" she yelled at us as we filed off to the classroom. The other trainees were Salvadorean, a French girl and a Taiwanese guy (he was over in ES selling wedding dresses). This is how Carla says you should teach. To teach the word ´open´walk up to the door and open it and yell at the top of your voice "OPEN! OPEN! OPEN!" (Phase One- ´Introduction´) "I need you guys to be really dynamic" she said, which seemed to manifest itself mainly in shouting. "Why do we shout?" she asked, ignoring everyone´s replies, "So the students lose all their inhibitions!" she informed us. Phase Two was ´Role Play´- Walk over to the other side of the room and ask yourself (if you are Carla) "Open the door Carla" then scream WAIT! and ask what are you doing Carla?" then go to the other side of the room and answer yourself "I am opening a door". The next phase was called ´Attack´, and seemed to consist in yelling again at your students to open the door, then screaming WAIT! at them asking each of them what they are doing. Apparently this method is foolproof for teaching any word. "Attack your students! Attack your students!" Carla urged us, looking up between texts. I felt so depressed and fearful of having everything I remembered and learnt previously about teaching washed away by Carla´s belows that I could not face going back after Wednesday.
On Monday 2nd I also started helping out at an art workshop for kids in a community here. I met a friend of A and B´s at an exhibition here and asked if I could help her out, she´s an art therapist and twice a week on Monday and Wednesday afternoons we go into a community in the middle of town and do art things with the kids. It is brilliant and I love it. You never quite know what´s going to happen, who´s going to turn up and so on, how the children will get on... The kids range from about 3 to 12ish. Some are quite wild and crazy and others are so orderly, tidying, fetching water, looking after other kids etc..very sweet. When we arrive we have to go and look for the key to open up the room where there are some desks. Its pretty hot and sticky and often smells of sewage. The houses are all made from corrugated iron sheets but seem amazingly study. Then the kids come in over the course of the next couple of hours, they try out using whatever material it is- crayons, watercolours, charcoal and pastels so far, to create storybooks, paintings, and so on. Sometimes their mums have come along. It can be a bit crazy as things can descend into chaos quite quickly, lots of children shouting at you, attacking each other, sometimes stealing from each other or running around, getting up and running out type things. Last week a 12 year old boy asked me to help him spell his name, and there are some that cannot write beyond spelling out their name. It´s nice to be able introduce them to the paints and things and see them having fun, and I feel lucky to be have the opportuity to hep out, they are all so friendly and great and happy to see you and run up and hug your legs when you arrive which is so sweet.
On Tuesday 3rd, Amber was part of an exhibition here called ´10 words by 10 artists´, it´s the second one she´s been part of while I´ve been out here and it´s very exciting to see her work up and exhibited and doing well. Speaking of which she´s just been accepted into a prestigious art auction in June in Guatemala. Well done Bambi!
On Friday 6th March I went with Amber to have her 4 month scan which was quite amazing. Seeing the little human who´s become a person no longer a jacket potato as in the other ultra pics I saw. He (we think its´s a he as Amber´s older bro, also present, said he saw something larger than the cursor on the scan.) At the end I realised I had wheeled my chair right up to the screen as it was all a bit entracing, like when they put the hearbeat on, seeing the baby doing what looked like smiling, on the screen, all happening inside Amber. Her ultrasound doctor is nice and took lots of time explaining everything. her other baby doctor sounds a little more traditional- we´ve just had elections here, and he asked Amber if she was eligible to vote, if she knew how to vote and then advised her to ´vota con sabiduria´the slogan of Arena, the (now ex-) incumbent party here. Oh no, not what you want at your ultrasound is it? I am learning lots about being pregnant while I´m here which is interesting. Apparently according to Amber´s other brother you need to take straws with you when you go into hospital (drinking in difficult positions).
The weekend of 7th and 8th March I went across the country with B´s family to the mountains near the Honduran border. A place called Montecristo in Chalatenango in the North West. It is fairly high up there and was my first experience of proper cold since January which was very weird. I went with B´s family (His mother, Elsa, His sister, Patty, his sister´s husband, Toyo, their daughter Alejandra, her boyfriend Carlos, Alejandra´s daughter Sofia, Baltasar´s neice, Reina, and Patty´s other daughter Esmeralda, oh and her husband Mario and their son Fernando, and his nanny (Fernando´s). I got to experience a large Latin family excursion which was fun and interesting. It was beautiful up there, and looked a bit like nice bits of England, with some pines and flowers. We first of all went to visit Reina´s family- her younder sister, Genesis, and her cousin Alejandra, as well as her grandmother and great grandfather who live up there. The house we visited was very simple, with an outside shed with a hole for a toilet, a trough where you have to go and fetch water to do washing up and so on. The people up there are lighter skinned and have rosy cheeks. We had a great lunch with Gallina India style chicken soup with rice, vegetables and cujada (salty white cheese) and some Central American cake with lots of crazy coloured icing. I sat outside and thought about how urbanised I was and tried to imagine what it would be like living there, but my brain is too urbanised i realised. At night we stayed in a hotel where I shared a room with Reina and Alejandra. It was freezing 3 degrees proper cold! The next day we went to visit some flower and veggie plantations, where I brought A&B a camomile plant which looked great but is now on the way out i think, i don´t think they like being inside. We ate some spinach pupsas and then started the slow windy trip back, via La Palma, an artesanal town on the way back. Lots of traffic coming back to the city meant a diversion down a totally unlit road off the main one. It was amazing to see during about 40 minutes, every minute in total darkness someone driving cattle, walking with their family, people cycling, teeneagers walking along alll in total blackness, no one looked scared they might be run over.
The 9th March week was more art workshops, more great pilates with Elio and 1980´s style Salvadorean ladies, and in search of a different school after the Academia Europa brainwash experience. I met someone at AnB´s civil wedding who was involved with a bilingual Spanish-English school here and who took me to speak to someone at the school. Whilst there I also met the headteacher Mrs Arias, who looked like a very scary bird, she looked my casual attire up and down with a face that said ´wrong clothes´ and I was worried I was going to be expelled or something. "We´re very demanding of our teachers" she threatened me, and walked out. The school´s motto is "knowledge, morality, discipline" which pretty much chimes with my own values so I thought I´d fit right in. It all seemed very formal and a bit traditional for me so I put off working there until last week when I started. Will update later.
Saturday and Sunday 15th March - Saturday I went for a run with a group called the hash house harriers who are a group that are round the world who run and then booze and are all a bit macho boys club. I didn´t realise til I got there that it was an orienteering run, since I have trouble with a map, let alone without one this was my worst kind of run. It was fun running through the hills (more walking getting lost really) but the legs managed to get all cut and itchy again from the plants. After the run everyone went to go and play drinking games and sing songs where people are brought into the middle of a circle to be taken the piss out of. I dont like this kind of thing so I didnt like this. On the plus side, the legs of the year are coming on, with doggie and mozzie bites, all over scratch effect from the grasses complemented by descreet lascerations on the heels from my new sensible school shoes.
Sunday 15th was elections day out here and the left party, started by former guerillas during the civil war, have just got in. Bit of a shock to the country after couple of decades of the right. Controversial vicepresident, a guy called Sanchez Ceren a former guerilla involved clearly in some horrendous killings in the war. Although clearly that can be said of many people who were involved in the war which is a fair few people given it ended less than 2 decades ago. Some who were for the incumbent reçight paty are worried that Chavez is going to take over central america- 2 of ES neighbours Nicaragua and Honduras are perceived to be communist. Most people seem to just want a change and are interested to see the changes that wil happen. The next president here is a charismatic guy called Mauricio Funes and his slogan was ´un cambio seguro´and clearly lots of people wanted a change after so long of the right. Its a couple of months til he takes power and everyone´s a bit curious to see what´ll happen. There´s talk of going back from the dollar to the old currency The Colon amongst other things. What would this mean Sarah Bullock, economics expert?
Week of 16th March - I started teaching at the end of the week, I have 5 different classes I think although Ive lost count. The classes are big some 30 plus and the first day was a demonstration of my total lack of ´classroom management´skills. The kids are teenagers from 12 to 16. Argh!! On my first day they asked things like where are you from? what are you doing here? do you have any children? and, my favourite, "Mrs Marietta, Mrs Marietta, have you seen Austin Powers?" When I replied yes, Danny a particularly chatty student said "Beacuse you speak just like that". I have been assigned spelling class, I´m trying to make the most of this my not especially favourite and a touch dry subject. It´s all chaotic in a different way to the art workshops, as I try and figure out hw to teach in a way to get the students interested and active. So far it is chaos though, lord knows if anyone´s learning anything and I feel like a total beginner in the classroom again. This week I also managed to get sunburmt swimming 1.5km in the midday sun with so sun protection on my back. Dont do this it hurts. I got to sample some San Salvador nightlife on Wednesday which was fun to see, although I don´t think I´ll make it as a latin woman anytime soon with my lack of tacones, tight clothes, done up hair and make up. I was out with Alejandra and her friend Lupita. We had our pic taken for a magazine here, which wil be the second time I´ll get in an ES magazine, which is funny and how it is in smaller places
The weekend, Saturday 21st went down to the central cemetary downtown here with Amber. Graves here are more cheerful than in the UK, all turqoise and pink and bright colours. We then went to the market, which has a reputation for being a bit dangerous. All was fine though. there were lots of people screaming on the way out, it turned out there was a big rat running around one of the food places, that people were trying to kill with a broom. Sunday 22nd, went up the Boqueron volcano with Amber to eat tacos, great. It´s peaceful up there
So I´ll be teaching for the next couple of weeks, then things close up for Holy Week when Im hoping to go to Nicaragua. Love and send news! I feel far away from everyone now. Will add photos soon of reent activities xxx
Other
Pippy, films I´ve seen Revoutionary Road (very good I thought, scary portrayal of domestic trappings and stiflings), a docufilm about the maras (gangs) here called La Vida Loca that showed you a horrendous side of life in parts of the city here with lots of premature deaths, a French film at a film festival here called ´Ne le dis à personne´ which was a scary thriller where lots of people were killed and i tried to keep up by reading the Spanish substitles so got a bit confused.
Also, enjoying many bad tv movies of an evening such as something about aid workers with Angelina Jole and Clive Owen where Clive Owen just talked really fast throughout the whole thing in his portrayal of maverick stressed aid worker, a terrible film called Silent Cry about a hospital where there was a baby stealing racket run by doctors who had to keep killing people, both films badly entertaining.
Better books- Reluctant Fundamentalist was good (Thanks Sach) I liked the way it was told through a one sided conversation, and Unbearable Lightness of Being weird and dystopian with the author butting in to say things and the Hound of the Baskervilles which was a bit of fun about someone using a big scary dog to scare people. Must read some Spanish books...
So an update on the last few weeks - 2nd March to now, wow it´s the 23rd. Goodness
Week of 2nd March- On Mon 2nd, After having visited a couple of schools to teach in, I went for my first week of ´training´at the Academia Europa, a chain of language schools over in CA. Our trainer was a woman caled Carla with a yellow tooth, "Ok c´mon guys, let´s go!" she yelled at us as we filed off to the classroom. The other trainees were Salvadorean, a French girl and a Taiwanese guy (he was over in ES selling wedding dresses). This is how Carla says you should teach. To teach the word ´open´walk up to the door and open it and yell at the top of your voice "OPEN! OPEN! OPEN!" (Phase One- ´Introduction´) "I need you guys to be really dynamic" she said, which seemed to manifest itself mainly in shouting. "Why do we shout?" she asked, ignoring everyone´s replies, "So the students lose all their inhibitions!" she informed us. Phase Two was ´Role Play´- Walk over to the other side of the room and ask yourself (if you are Carla) "Open the door Carla" then scream WAIT! and ask what are you doing Carla?" then go to the other side of the room and answer yourself "I am opening a door". The next phase was called ´Attack´, and seemed to consist in yelling again at your students to open the door, then screaming WAIT! at them asking each of them what they are doing. Apparently this method is foolproof for teaching any word. "Attack your students! Attack your students!" Carla urged us, looking up between texts. I felt so depressed and fearful of having everything I remembered and learnt previously about teaching washed away by Carla´s belows that I could not face going back after Wednesday.
On Monday 2nd I also started helping out at an art workshop for kids in a community here. I met a friend of A and B´s at an exhibition here and asked if I could help her out, she´s an art therapist and twice a week on Monday and Wednesday afternoons we go into a community in the middle of town and do art things with the kids. It is brilliant and I love it. You never quite know what´s going to happen, who´s going to turn up and so on, how the children will get on... The kids range from about 3 to 12ish. Some are quite wild and crazy and others are so orderly, tidying, fetching water, looking after other kids etc..very sweet. When we arrive we have to go and look for the key to open up the room where there are some desks. Its pretty hot and sticky and often smells of sewage. The houses are all made from corrugated iron sheets but seem amazingly study. Then the kids come in over the course of the next couple of hours, they try out using whatever material it is- crayons, watercolours, charcoal and pastels so far, to create storybooks, paintings, and so on. Sometimes their mums have come along. It can be a bit crazy as things can descend into chaos quite quickly, lots of children shouting at you, attacking each other, sometimes stealing from each other or running around, getting up and running out type things. Last week a 12 year old boy asked me to help him spell his name, and there are some that cannot write beyond spelling out their name. It´s nice to be able introduce them to the paints and things and see them having fun, and I feel lucky to be have the opportuity to hep out, they are all so friendly and great and happy to see you and run up and hug your legs when you arrive which is so sweet.
On Tuesday 3rd, Amber was part of an exhibition here called ´10 words by 10 artists´, it´s the second one she´s been part of while I´ve been out here and it´s very exciting to see her work up and exhibited and doing well. Speaking of which she´s just been accepted into a prestigious art auction in June in Guatemala. Well done Bambi!
On Friday 6th March I went with Amber to have her 4 month scan which was quite amazing. Seeing the little human who´s become a person no longer a jacket potato as in the other ultra pics I saw. He (we think its´s a he as Amber´s older bro, also present, said he saw something larger than the cursor on the scan.) At the end I realised I had wheeled my chair right up to the screen as it was all a bit entracing, like when they put the hearbeat on, seeing the baby doing what looked like smiling, on the screen, all happening inside Amber. Her ultrasound doctor is nice and took lots of time explaining everything. her other baby doctor sounds a little more traditional- we´ve just had elections here, and he asked Amber if she was eligible to vote, if she knew how to vote and then advised her to ´vota con sabiduria´the slogan of Arena, the (now ex-) incumbent party here. Oh no, not what you want at your ultrasound is it? I am learning lots about being pregnant while I´m here which is interesting. Apparently according to Amber´s other brother you need to take straws with you when you go into hospital (drinking in difficult positions).
The weekend of 7th and 8th March I went across the country with B´s family to the mountains near the Honduran border. A place called Montecristo in Chalatenango in the North West. It is fairly high up there and was my first experience of proper cold since January which was very weird. I went with B´s family (His mother, Elsa, His sister, Patty, his sister´s husband, Toyo, their daughter Alejandra, her boyfriend Carlos, Alejandra´s daughter Sofia, Baltasar´s neice, Reina, and Patty´s other daughter Esmeralda, oh and her husband Mario and their son Fernando, and his nanny (Fernando´s). I got to experience a large Latin family excursion which was fun and interesting. It was beautiful up there, and looked a bit like nice bits of England, with some pines and flowers. We first of all went to visit Reina´s family- her younder sister, Genesis, and her cousin Alejandra, as well as her grandmother and great grandfather who live up there. The house we visited was very simple, with an outside shed with a hole for a toilet, a trough where you have to go and fetch water to do washing up and so on. The people up there are lighter skinned and have rosy cheeks. We had a great lunch with Gallina India style chicken soup with rice, vegetables and cujada (salty white cheese) and some Central American cake with lots of crazy coloured icing. I sat outside and thought about how urbanised I was and tried to imagine what it would be like living there, but my brain is too urbanised i realised. At night we stayed in a hotel where I shared a room with Reina and Alejandra. It was freezing 3 degrees proper cold! The next day we went to visit some flower and veggie plantations, where I brought A&B a camomile plant which looked great but is now on the way out i think, i don´t think they like being inside. We ate some spinach pupsas and then started the slow windy trip back, via La Palma, an artesanal town on the way back. Lots of traffic coming back to the city meant a diversion down a totally unlit road off the main one. It was amazing to see during about 40 minutes, every minute in total darkness someone driving cattle, walking with their family, people cycling, teeneagers walking along alll in total blackness, no one looked scared they might be run over.
The 9th March week was more art workshops, more great pilates with Elio and 1980´s style Salvadorean ladies, and in search of a different school after the Academia Europa brainwash experience. I met someone at AnB´s civil wedding who was involved with a bilingual Spanish-English school here and who took me to speak to someone at the school. Whilst there I also met the headteacher Mrs Arias, who looked like a very scary bird, she looked my casual attire up and down with a face that said ´wrong clothes´ and I was worried I was going to be expelled or something. "We´re very demanding of our teachers" she threatened me, and walked out. The school´s motto is "knowledge, morality, discipline" which pretty much chimes with my own values so I thought I´d fit right in. It all seemed very formal and a bit traditional for me so I put off working there until last week when I started. Will update later.
Saturday and Sunday 15th March - Saturday I went for a run with a group called the hash house harriers who are a group that are round the world who run and then booze and are all a bit macho boys club. I didn´t realise til I got there that it was an orienteering run, since I have trouble with a map, let alone without one this was my worst kind of run. It was fun running through the hills (more walking getting lost really) but the legs managed to get all cut and itchy again from the plants. After the run everyone went to go and play drinking games and sing songs where people are brought into the middle of a circle to be taken the piss out of. I dont like this kind of thing so I didnt like this. On the plus side, the legs of the year are coming on, with doggie and mozzie bites, all over scratch effect from the grasses complemented by descreet lascerations on the heels from my new sensible school shoes.
Sunday 15th was elections day out here and the left party, started by former guerillas during the civil war, have just got in. Bit of a shock to the country after couple of decades of the right. Controversial vicepresident, a guy called Sanchez Ceren a former guerilla involved clearly in some horrendous killings in the war. Although clearly that can be said of many people who were involved in the war which is a fair few people given it ended less than 2 decades ago. Some who were for the incumbent reçight paty are worried that Chavez is going to take over central america- 2 of ES neighbours Nicaragua and Honduras are perceived to be communist. Most people seem to just want a change and are interested to see the changes that wil happen. The next president here is a charismatic guy called Mauricio Funes and his slogan was ´un cambio seguro´and clearly lots of people wanted a change after so long of the right. Its a couple of months til he takes power and everyone´s a bit curious to see what´ll happen. There´s talk of going back from the dollar to the old currency The Colon amongst other things. What would this mean Sarah Bullock, economics expert?
Week of 16th March - I started teaching at the end of the week, I have 5 different classes I think although Ive lost count. The classes are big some 30 plus and the first day was a demonstration of my total lack of ´classroom management´skills. The kids are teenagers from 12 to 16. Argh!! On my first day they asked things like where are you from? what are you doing here? do you have any children? and, my favourite, "Mrs Marietta, Mrs Marietta, have you seen Austin Powers?" When I replied yes, Danny a particularly chatty student said "Beacuse you speak just like that". I have been assigned spelling class, I´m trying to make the most of this my not especially favourite and a touch dry subject. It´s all chaotic in a different way to the art workshops, as I try and figure out hw to teach in a way to get the students interested and active. So far it is chaos though, lord knows if anyone´s learning anything and I feel like a total beginner in the classroom again. This week I also managed to get sunburmt swimming 1.5km in the midday sun with so sun protection on my back. Dont do this it hurts. I got to sample some San Salvador nightlife on Wednesday which was fun to see, although I don´t think I´ll make it as a latin woman anytime soon with my lack of tacones, tight clothes, done up hair and make up. I was out with Alejandra and her friend Lupita. We had our pic taken for a magazine here, which wil be the second time I´ll get in an ES magazine, which is funny and how it is in smaller places
The weekend, Saturday 21st went down to the central cemetary downtown here with Amber. Graves here are more cheerful than in the UK, all turqoise and pink and bright colours. We then went to the market, which has a reputation for being a bit dangerous. All was fine though. there were lots of people screaming on the way out, it turned out there was a big rat running around one of the food places, that people were trying to kill with a broom. Sunday 22nd, went up the Boqueron volcano with Amber to eat tacos, great. It´s peaceful up there
So I´ll be teaching for the next couple of weeks, then things close up for Holy Week when Im hoping to go to Nicaragua. Love and send news! I feel far away from everyone now. Will add photos soon of reent activities xxx
Other
Pippy, films I´ve seen Revoutionary Road (very good I thought, scary portrayal of domestic trappings and stiflings), a docufilm about the maras (gangs) here called La Vida Loca that showed you a horrendous side of life in parts of the city here with lots of premature deaths, a French film at a film festival here called ´Ne le dis à personne´ which was a scary thriller where lots of people were killed and i tried to keep up by reading the Spanish substitles so got a bit confused.
Also, enjoying many bad tv movies of an evening such as something about aid workers with Angelina Jole and Clive Owen where Clive Owen just talked really fast throughout the whole thing in his portrayal of maverick stressed aid worker, a terrible film called Silent Cry about a hospital where there was a baby stealing racket run by doctors who had to keep killing people, both films badly entertaining.
Better books- Reluctant Fundamentalist was good (Thanks Sach) I liked the way it was told through a one sided conversation, and Unbearable Lightness of Being weird and dystopian with the author butting in to say things and the Hound of the Baskervilles which was a bit of fun about someone using a big scary dog to scare people. Must read some Spanish books...
Thursday, 12 March 2009
2 weddings (just to make sure)
Hello, Quite a long time since the last blog and much to catch up on, let´s go.27th February 2009 - So la niña Amber is now Señora or even Doña Amber which sounds a bit scary, lots of gold jewellery etc.. the first wedding was the civil, where the couple sign a contract, a sort of pre-nuptual agreement. The service is MC´d by a lawyer. So this is what happened, the ceremony was held at B´s family´s place (where I´m living at the mo) and it was just for family and the witness friends. Amber looked the bees knees in a wicked 60´s number (her Mum´s) and some excellent glittery platforms (her Dad´s, not really but they were a present from him). Balta was all 50´s, a bit rock n roll with his old school suit and hair. The service was quite short, A & B didn´t have to say much, mainly the lawyer reading lots of legal things and he gave a quick speech about what an unstable world we live in with bad things like disease but that some things must be permanent so that´s what marraige is and he was very proud he´d been married for nearly 40 years. Then they signed and then me and B´s witness, Sapo, signed. Then lots of nice food and a proper latin disco ensued with some kareoke and Amber´s Dad on the geetar for a spot. A&B dance well, it´s nice to see. Let´s see some pictures of A&B, A and her bro Vyvyan and latin disco time:
1st March 2009 - The religious wedding followed on Sunday, after not much sleep for Amber trying to sleep on a head of curled hair, Amber went to get flowers put in her hair and then we went over to her Mum´s place and got ready there (scary dogs tucked away).
The morning before:
When we were all ready and many pictures had been taken of A, we headed off to downtown San Salvador where the Iglesia El Rosario is. The wedding service was integrated into the Sunday mass so it was low key. I was looking over at B´s mum for my queue to go up to the altar to do my bit, as I suddenly seemed to have all the symbols on me. These were, a lazo, like a lassoo, a thin gold chain which was meant to go round A and B´s heads. I did not get a chance to lassoo them as Padre Carlos (younger and hipper than Padre G) did not include it in the service. This is probably a good thing as I could see me getting in a terrible tangle with it with comic chaos ensuing. The next symbol was the "aras" normally gold coins which symbolise all you´ll share in the marraige. You can have semillas (seeds) too and this is what they opted for. The seeds A purchased on Saturday, not able to find orange or lemon seeds, she chose tomato seeds and now has enough for 2000 plants which is rather a lot. After the seeds are exchanged, the rings are given and then the mass continues with some hymns and communion where everyone comes up much more informally than England with all that kneeling business, much more relaxed. Amber´s first communion seemed not to happen so we were all confused about that but there you go
Lunch after for the 30 guests was by the lake at Illopango. Below, we have B & A listening to her Dad´s great speech, having a sit down, Amber showing off her jelly shoes and her bro showing his pointy numbers, and a nice Amber pic
Below the fantastic yellow cake with A´s mum Adela, A and B, and their first dance to music played by a "combo" group, playing salsa, merengue, cumbia and so on. The group of about 10 musicians were nearly all blind which was quite a thing, they had to lead each other when they left. The music was great
Below there´s me and A´s brother Vyvyan, me n A and some more great dancing including, A with her Dad, Winter, and B with his mum, Elsa, Adela with Vyvyan and Baltasar and his neice Reina
Below, me and A, Amber and the mums, Elsa and Adela and some dancing with a dog
Below Amber´s lovely hair and the bouquet keeping cool in the ice box, and the mini cava bottles engraved by A
Y por fin, down by the lake at dusk
It was a top day, very beautiful, simple and peaceful looking out to the lake, with lovely sun, dancing, drinks (in A´s bottles), food. A and her brothers did a great job of looking after everyone and everyone did a great job of drinking. All of Amber´s many efforts before the day led to a great afternoon and evening. A wedding by a lake in the sun is a lovely way to do it
Bye bye for now xxx
Tuesday, 3 March 2009
Over the border and far away in Guatemala
Hello again, and firstly apologies, Im not very frequent with this blogging, this is in part due to the fact that I am writing from the corner of a small video store that has a handful of computers which are confined to these cupboard like things where fuction triumphs over comfort.
So, last week I moved out of Amber´s and am now staying in her hubby´s(!) old family place which is very nice. Amber and Balta´s dog, Capitan, lives there. He is very friendly and bouncy and not bitey so I am happy. Balta´s family are also lovely- 4 generations in the same group of houses. After this I made a short trip to Guatemala, involving a 6am TICA bus from SS to Guatemala City or Guate to those in the know just so you can sound like a local. Easy peasy. A slow affair, I kept on looking out for when the busdriver might have been dropping off extortion money, although apparently Amber told me later this doesnt happen on TICA buses. The slow part was mainly the border crossing when the border officials get on to check everyones passports and then 5 mins later you all get off and go through this again, just to make sure. I managed to change money very badly at the border, although this was mainly due to my checking of the exchange rate after i´d changed the money. There were a group of Mexicans that the border police were interested in and so they had to get off the bus with all their stuff for inspection and be questioned for a hour and a half whilst we waited and sweated, discussed él grupo´and their origins and looked at the border selling activity outside, mainly money changer man wandering around with huge wads of cash and women and children selling drinks and pupusas, corn pancake things.
We arrived around midday in massive Guate. It is known for being the most dangerous city in CA, and it is huge. The bus drew into the abandoned ´Fun Plaza´shopping centre and from there, I went looking for some other travelling people to go on to Antigua. Not many on the bus it turned out. These included, a couple, probably Dutch I decided, where the girlfriend was a nervy type in black lycra, presumably to streamline travel. There were 2 Texan youths, topless and whiter than even me, with one walking around with a camera slung around his bare torso, drinking a beer. I hoped for him that wasnt going to be his look for exploring Guatemala city. "Are you going to Antigua?" I asked them, "Isn´t that a country?" one of them replied. A few minutes later I found a nice Italian couple who were indeed going there. I bossily organised some taxis and we were off with the Texans safely in tow.
Arriving in Antigua is funny, suddenly there´s a cobbled entrance off the normal road and there you are in a cobbled colonial town. It felt strange being there with lots of tourists after being used to not many in ES. I stayed in a lonely planet reco, a hostel called The Black Cat which it assured me was in the heart of the action. Staying in dormitories is cheap and a more sociable option to hanging out with myself. I also find it a bit fascinating seeing all the travelling people. The first night´s occupants of the room were Ray, a handsome Canadian paramedic who liked salsa dancing and thought it was beautiful to watch. He had diamante studs and was friendly. There was an older Swiss man, also friendly and possibly a bit mad, who spoke in a soft voice and showed me some of his photos. He was planning to help a local family near Lake Aititlan open a B&B. "Great!" I said, "How?", "I think I will take them 2 tubs of Nesquik" he replied. The business plan was basic but sound. He also then said "And I bought some chicks!" I was expecting the birds to pop out from under the bed, although he said hed already given them to the family which was a disappointment. Night one room vibe was chilled and respectful.
My first afternoon I spent wandering around, I bought an overpriced hiddeous towel with a scary parrot on it as i´d left mine behind and chatted to some people in the market. I wasn´t very good at the haggling so i didn´t buy much, although there are many beautifully coloured things like covers and slippers which I bought for me and Amber. (Any requests Emsy?) I walked to the edge of the town and an old lady in green neon flares spat on me so decided to go back. It was fun talking to people, one asked me when I said I was from England, "how do you protect your skin there in the cold? I heard it burns people´s skin in Canada" I said yes, dry skin was a problem at home. The next day, I enjoyed a delicious and massive breakfast tipico of plantain, avocado, tomato, frijoles and eggs and had an outdoors shower, not so fun as i stood there shivering trying to balance my clothes and cash in a not wet place. More walking about and a salsa class in the avo that Ray had told me about. And why not? There were 3 of us gringos shuffling amusingly to the instructions of Gloria (think Dirty Dancing, holiday camp scenes), who looked a bit tired from her full schedule of slasa classes and maybe bad salsa men. It was an iritatingly sexist dance, where we were constantly remided that the man had to lead and have control. How amusing I thought, as I shuffled with my 19 year old Dutch boy partner. I met a nice Norweigen girl there however. Back at the hostel I was engaged in conversation by an Aussie guy who looked like he´d been travelling a long time and clearly had the opportunist´s knack as within 3 mins of meeting me he was asking me to show him around San Salvador whilst negotiating a cheap flight with the girl on his other side who worked for an an airline. I spent the evning having drinks with the Italian girl I went to Antigua with and a French girl who was teaching in San Pedro Sula in Honduras. 3 introverts having a chat, which was nice, but we do find it hard at first sometimes us introverts. I went to bed for sleep which was fairly pointless given that the world´s noisiest hostel occupant was staying in the room, which mainly involved drunken shouting and repeated falling off her bed.
Whew, still writing. Don´t worry onto the last day- more wandering, and standing about to take pictures, I chatted to an artist painting on the side of the road and told him my dad painted too. It was nice just standing about quietly, not buying just looking at people and being peaceful. More chats with people in the market. One couple told me they´d worked there for 25 years. The woman, Angelica, told me her husband helped her sew blankets but that the other men teased him because it wasnt men´s work. Talking to other people, they said it was normal for the men to do this kind of work, including one man who said that men worked much harder than women and raising children didn´t count as work. I disagreed. After more salsa (now not in my top 5 exercises) I went for a drink with the Norweigen girl Ann-Elin. her life sounded pretty cool in Norway, working as a hiking and climbing tour guide around the world and also when at home, with a social project for young people with drug and alcohol problems. I could quite fancy becoming a Norweigen tour guide.
It´s clearly a lot easier as a tourist in A ntigua than in ES where the tourist infrastructure and comforts aren´t really there. There are also many cool things nearby I shall have to return to see like Lake Aitlan and Semuc Champey. After a third night of no sleep and more drunken roomates, I made my way back to Guate on the chicken bus with the Australian guy who seemed to be leaving at the same time. The road out of Antigua was steep and swerving. It´s about an hour back to the city, where I had to wait for some hours for the bus back to ES in the ´Fun Plaza´ whilst my travelling companion regaled me with horrendous tales of things that had happened to hapless touirsts in CA, whilst he reassured me how much more dangerous the bus we were taking back to ES was than a chicken bus. Relaxing. Another long bus ride back, with another ear blastingly violent rubbish film on the TV (Transporter 2), during which travelling companion was taken off the bus and searched by the border guards which made me a little nervous, who asked if we were travelling together. All turned out ok, but the guards are quite scarey. 5 hours later it was back to SS in time for the weddings..more soon with pictures!
love xxxx
So, last week I moved out of Amber´s and am now staying in her hubby´s(!) old family place which is very nice. Amber and Balta´s dog, Capitan, lives there. He is very friendly and bouncy and not bitey so I am happy. Balta´s family are also lovely- 4 generations in the same group of houses. After this I made a short trip to Guatemala, involving a 6am TICA bus from SS to Guatemala City or Guate to those in the know just so you can sound like a local. Easy peasy. A slow affair, I kept on looking out for when the busdriver might have been dropping off extortion money, although apparently Amber told me later this doesnt happen on TICA buses. The slow part was mainly the border crossing when the border officials get on to check everyones passports and then 5 mins later you all get off and go through this again, just to make sure. I managed to change money very badly at the border, although this was mainly due to my checking of the exchange rate after i´d changed the money. There were a group of Mexicans that the border police were interested in and so they had to get off the bus with all their stuff for inspection and be questioned for a hour and a half whilst we waited and sweated, discussed él grupo´and their origins and looked at the border selling activity outside, mainly money changer man wandering around with huge wads of cash and women and children selling drinks and pupusas, corn pancake things.
We arrived around midday in massive Guate. It is known for being the most dangerous city in CA, and it is huge. The bus drew into the abandoned ´Fun Plaza´shopping centre and from there, I went looking for some other travelling people to go on to Antigua. Not many on the bus it turned out. These included, a couple, probably Dutch I decided, where the girlfriend was a nervy type in black lycra, presumably to streamline travel. There were 2 Texan youths, topless and whiter than even me, with one walking around with a camera slung around his bare torso, drinking a beer. I hoped for him that wasnt going to be his look for exploring Guatemala city. "Are you going to Antigua?" I asked them, "Isn´t that a country?" one of them replied. A few minutes later I found a nice Italian couple who were indeed going there. I bossily organised some taxis and we were off with the Texans safely in tow.
Arriving in Antigua is funny, suddenly there´s a cobbled entrance off the normal road and there you are in a cobbled colonial town. It felt strange being there with lots of tourists after being used to not many in ES. I stayed in a lonely planet reco, a hostel called The Black Cat which it assured me was in the heart of the action. Staying in dormitories is cheap and a more sociable option to hanging out with myself. I also find it a bit fascinating seeing all the travelling people. The first night´s occupants of the room were Ray, a handsome Canadian paramedic who liked salsa dancing and thought it was beautiful to watch. He had diamante studs and was friendly. There was an older Swiss man, also friendly and possibly a bit mad, who spoke in a soft voice and showed me some of his photos. He was planning to help a local family near Lake Aititlan open a B&B. "Great!" I said, "How?", "I think I will take them 2 tubs of Nesquik" he replied. The business plan was basic but sound. He also then said "And I bought some chicks!" I was expecting the birds to pop out from under the bed, although he said hed already given them to the family which was a disappointment. Night one room vibe was chilled and respectful.
My first afternoon I spent wandering around, I bought an overpriced hiddeous towel with a scary parrot on it as i´d left mine behind and chatted to some people in the market. I wasn´t very good at the haggling so i didn´t buy much, although there are many beautifully coloured things like covers and slippers which I bought for me and Amber. (Any requests Emsy?) I walked to the edge of the town and an old lady in green neon flares spat on me so decided to go back. It was fun talking to people, one asked me when I said I was from England, "how do you protect your skin there in the cold? I heard it burns people´s skin in Canada" I said yes, dry skin was a problem at home. The next day, I enjoyed a delicious and massive breakfast tipico of plantain, avocado, tomato, frijoles and eggs and had an outdoors shower, not so fun as i stood there shivering trying to balance my clothes and cash in a not wet place. More walking about and a salsa class in the avo that Ray had told me about. And why not? There were 3 of us gringos shuffling amusingly to the instructions of Gloria (think Dirty Dancing, holiday camp scenes), who looked a bit tired from her full schedule of slasa classes and maybe bad salsa men. It was an iritatingly sexist dance, where we were constantly remided that the man had to lead and have control. How amusing I thought, as I shuffled with my 19 year old Dutch boy partner. I met a nice Norweigen girl there however. Back at the hostel I was engaged in conversation by an Aussie guy who looked like he´d been travelling a long time and clearly had the opportunist´s knack as within 3 mins of meeting me he was asking me to show him around San Salvador whilst negotiating a cheap flight with the girl on his other side who worked for an an airline. I spent the evning having drinks with the Italian girl I went to Antigua with and a French girl who was teaching in San Pedro Sula in Honduras. 3 introverts having a chat, which was nice, but we do find it hard at first sometimes us introverts. I went to bed for sleep which was fairly pointless given that the world´s noisiest hostel occupant was staying in the room, which mainly involved drunken shouting and repeated falling off her bed.
Whew, still writing. Don´t worry onto the last day- more wandering, and standing about to take pictures, I chatted to an artist painting on the side of the road and told him my dad painted too. It was nice just standing about quietly, not buying just looking at people and being peaceful. More chats with people in the market. One couple told me they´d worked there for 25 years. The woman, Angelica, told me her husband helped her sew blankets but that the other men teased him because it wasnt men´s work. Talking to other people, they said it was normal for the men to do this kind of work, including one man who said that men worked much harder than women and raising children didn´t count as work. I disagreed. After more salsa (now not in my top 5 exercises) I went for a drink with the Norweigen girl Ann-Elin. her life sounded pretty cool in Norway, working as a hiking and climbing tour guide around the world and also when at home, with a social project for young people with drug and alcohol problems. I could quite fancy becoming a Norweigen tour guide.
It´s clearly a lot easier as a tourist in A ntigua than in ES where the tourist infrastructure and comforts aren´t really there. There are also many cool things nearby I shall have to return to see like Lake Aitlan and Semuc Champey. After a third night of no sleep and more drunken roomates, I made my way back to Guate on the chicken bus with the Australian guy who seemed to be leaving at the same time. The road out of Antigua was steep and swerving. It´s about an hour back to the city, where I had to wait for some hours for the bus back to ES in the ´Fun Plaza´ whilst my travelling companion regaled me with horrendous tales of things that had happened to hapless touirsts in CA, whilst he reassured me how much more dangerous the bus we were taking back to ES was than a chicken bus. Relaxing. Another long bus ride back, with another ear blastingly violent rubbish film on the TV (Transporter 2), during which travelling companion was taken off the bus and searched by the border guards which made me a little nervous, who asked if we were travelling together. All turned out ok, but the guards are quite scarey. 5 hours later it was back to SS in time for the weddings..more soon with pictures!
love xxxx
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